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Books

A selection of books I've enjoyed and what I learned from them.

Parenting

Calm the Chaos

BY DAYNA ABRAHAM

One of the better parenting books I've read. It teaches you to play to your child's strengths, go on offense, and turn "difficult traits" into superpowers. Most parenting books teach defense: rules, consequences, discipline. This one helps you harness the best of the child.

Mindfulness

Clarity & Connection

BY YUNG PUEBLO

I find its short verses refreshing. It's an easy go-to read and reread to reset and reflect.

Investing

Coming Into View: How AI and Other Megatrends Will Shape Your Investments

BY JOSEPH H. DAVIS

A good framework for thinking through how investments may play out if AI flies, stalls, or disappoints. And how to navigate each scenario.

Leadership

Competing Against Luck

BY CLAYTON M. CHRISTENSEN (WITH KAREN DILLON, TADDY HALL, DAVID S. DUNCAN)

Clear framework for spotting breakthrough ideas by talking to users and figuring out JTBD, though it's easier said than done. You'll still need luck.

Career

Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life

BY BILL BURNETT AND DAVE EVANS

You can MVP life hypotheses, test them, and iterate quickly based on lived experiences.

Design

Designing Products People Love: How Great Designers Create Successful Products

BY SCOTT HURFF

Introduced me to the five UI states: ideal, empty, error, partial, and loading. This framework deeply changed how I look at and design products.

Design

Don't Make Me Think

BY STEVE KRUG

Changed the way I look at every interface and touch point.

Leadership

Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success

BY ADAM GRANT

Refreshing research on what I think is common sense. Just give generously and don't be an asshole. And avoid assholes and getting exploited.

Leadership

High Output Management

BY ANDREW S. GROVE

Output = Manager x Leverage, where Leverage = A mix of system, process, software, culture, and smarts. It makes management easier to process.

Science

How Not to Be Wrong: The Power of Mathematical Thinking

BY JORDAN ELLENBERG

Reveals math's hidden role in everyday life.

Science

How the World Really Works

BY VACLAV SMIL

A data-driven view of the forces shaping our economy, energy and environment.

Science

How to Avoid a Climate Disaster

BY BILL GATES

The best book I've read about climate change. Easy to understand, data-driven.

Mindset

Inner Game of Tennis

BY W. TIMOTHY GALLWEY

Mastering your mindset can beat raw skill. Teaches focus and self-belief in high-pressure moments.

Mindfulness

Love for Imperfect Things: How to Accept Yourself in a World Striving for Perfection

BY HAEMIN SUNIM

Super easy to read, understand, and process. I love the format: short essays, followed by quick bursts of quotes. Makes you feel good while reading, but also gives you space to pause and self-reflect. Highly recommend.

Leadership

Managing Oneself

BY PETER DRUCKER

Build your life and career around your strengths, values, and how you work best. Be very self-aware.

Mindset

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

BY CAROL S. DWECK

Good read to understand the difference between fixed and growth mindsets. No one has a pure growth mindset; it varies by area and situation. For tennis, I am content with where I am (i.e. contentment mindset). For work, I'd like to think I lean toward a growth mindset.

Mindset

Never Split the Difference

BY CHRIS VOSS

Super practical advice that's easily applicable if you put in some effort.

Investing

No Worries: How to Live a Stress-Free Financial Life

BY JARED DILLIAN

Fun and educational read. The Awesome Portfolio is dead simple to follow, optimizing for peace of mind.

Leadership

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life

BY MARSHALL B. ROSENBERG

A practical framework for compassionate communication: observe without judgment, name your feelings and needs, and make clear requests. This was one of the first books that made me realize I could communicate more effectively. I must admit, I did not really improve much until I became a parent.

Design

Obviously Awesome: How to Nail Product Positioning so Customers Get It, Buy It, Love It

BY APRIL DUNFORD

An easy framework to identify and execute positioning. I use it as part of my workflow when building products.

Career

Outliers: The Story of Success

BY MALCOLM GLADWELL

Success is rarely just talent. Timing, opportunity, culture, and effort compound over time. Even your birth month can matter more than you think.

Mindset

Principles: Life and Work

BY RAY DALIO

An inside look into Bridgewater's systems and principles. Fascinating but also a little too overwhelming imo. In short, systemize but also humanize.

Investing

Quantitative Trading: How to Build Your Own Algorithmic Trading Business

BY ERNEST P. CHAN

Gets into the details of quant trading. Fun.

Parenting

Raising Good Humans

BY HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS

Good intro to mindful parenting. It teaches you to regulate yourself and respond properly. Much harder to execute in the heat of the moment though.

Parenting

Raising Mentally Strong Kids

BY AMY MORIN

TL;DR: Learn to let go. Applies to adults too.

Career

Runnin' Down a Dream: How to Thrive in a Career You Actually Love

BY BILL GURLEY

A timely read as I think about what to build next. Very grateful to Bill for sending a copy of his book.

Leadership

Start with Why

BY SIMON SINEK

This book got me into the habit of asking why we do what we do. Clarity is key. Once the "why" is clear, the "what" and "how" become much easier.

Design

Sprint: How to Solve Big Problems and Test New Ideas in Just Five Days

BY JAKE KNAPP (WITH JOHN ZERATSKY AND BRADEN KOWITZ)

Great book that gives you a practical five-day framework to reduce product uncertainty and gain clarity.

Science

Stephen Hawking's Brief Answers to the Big Questions

BY STEPHEN HAWKING

Mind-blowing. Fascinating stuff. Joyful read.

Mindfulness

The Art of Happiness

BY DALAI LAMA AND HOWARD CUTLER

Blends ancient wisdom with modern psychology. Go-to book when one isn't in the happy state.

Mindfulness

The Book of Joy

BY DALAI LAMA AND DESMOND TUTU (WITH DOUGLAS ABRAMS)

Two leaders share how to find lasting happiness amid hardship. A joyful read.

Design

The Design of Everyday Things

BY DON NORMAN

A useful book on human-centered design. When users struggle, the design is often the problem. It teaches you to spot friction and use clear visual cues to make products intuitive.

Investing

The Intelligent Investor

BY BENJAMIN GRAHAM

Must-read on value investing. Some parts are dated, but the core principles still hold. It teaches you how to take advantage of Mr. Market's mood swings instead of becoming a victim of them. Great book for building a value investing system and keeping your emotions in check.

Investing

The Man Who Solved the Market: How Jim Simons Launched the Quant Revolution

BY GREGORY ZUCKERMAN

Fascinating to see the ups and downs of how Jim Simons and a group of non-Wall Street mathematicians and scientists came together to create one of the world's most successful quant funds.

Parenting

The Self-Driven Child

BY WILLIAM STIXRUD AND NED JOHNSON

Encourages you to give your children more autonomy. Be more of a buddy consultant than a helicopter parent. Let them make age-appropriate choices, fail, and learn early while the stakes are still low.

Mindfulness

The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down

BY HAEMIN SUNIM

This book made me slow down and reflect. It made me feel calmer and wiser. Useful for anyone going through transitions, or anyone who needs space to think more deeply.

Parenting

The Whole-Brain Child

BY DANIEL J. SIEGEL AND TINA PAYNE BRYSON

Helps you understand how the different parts of a child's developing brain work together, in plain English. And when the brains don't work. It gives you ways to "debug" meltdowns and navigate difficult moments.

Mindset

Think Like a Rocket Scientist

BY OZAN VAROL

Teaches problem-solving by mixing bold ideas with logic. I enjoy its space-stories examples.

Mindset

Tiny Habits

BY BJ FOGG

Easy-to-execute steps. Useful for kids and myself to build good habits.

Leadership

Trillion Dollar Coach

BY ERIC SCHMIDT, JONATHAN ROSENBERG AND ALAN EAGLE

Insightful leadership lessons from a coach's point of view.